Baningi abantu kulo mphakathi osheshayo abahlehlisa izinto okumele bazenze. Kwesinye isikhathi bakwenza ngonembeza futhi kwesinye isikhathi benganakile. Ukuhlehlisa izinto noma ukuhlehlisa izinto kwenzeka kakhulu kaningi kunalokho ongakucabanga, futhi kwabaningi kufana nobuvila noma ubuvila.
Lapho umuntu ehlehlisa izinto kakhulu ekugcineni uzizwa engakhiqizi, khona-ke imizwa yosizi ngisho nokukhathazeka kuyafika. Uma into edinga ukwenziwa ithatha isikhathi eside, imizwa imvamisa ayisihle neze, kepha kungani-ke abantu behlehlisa kaningi uma kungabasizi ngalutho? Bachitha isikhathi, futhi uma bechitha kakhulu, bazama ukungacabangi ngakho futhi baqhubeke nokuchitha isikhathi esithe xaxa.
Akuwona wonke umuntu ozindela, kunabantu abanombono ocacile ngempilo yabo nomsebenzi, futhi abaqondiswe njalo ezinhlosweni zabo. Okokuqala benza into eyodwa futhi lapho beyiqeda badlulela kokunye, okulula njengalokho ... Kepha kubantu abazindela ngokwejwayelekile, akulula kangako.
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Ukuhlehlisa izinto ukwenza imisebenzi ephuthuma kuqala kuqala noma ukwenza izinto ezimnandi kakhulu kunalokho okungathandeki kangako (futhi mhlawumbe okubaluleke kakhulu). Ngale ndlela, imisebenzi ezayo iye yabambezeleka ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Ukuze isimilo esizokwehlukaniswa njengokuhlehlisa noma ukuhlehlisa izinto kufanele kungakhiqizi, engenasidingo futhi ethatha isikhathi eside kakhulu. Izenzo ezihleliwe zibambezeleka ngokuzithandela yize zimbi kakhulu emoyeni ngokungazenzi ngesikhathi esifanele.
Ohlehlisa izinto ubheka yonke imithwalo yemfanelo njengosongo "lwenkululeko" yakhe. Ngakho-ke, balwa nayo! Ukuzama ukwenza okuthile ngaphandle kwezibopho zakho… Lokhu kubhidlika kokucekela phansi umsebenzi kunzima kakhulu ukukubalekela.
Imiphumela yokuhlehlisa izinto
Abantu babhekana nemiphumela yokuchitha isikhathi nokulahlekelwa yisikhathi, kuyalimaza kokubili ebhizinisini nakwezomuntu siqu. Ukuhlehlisa izinto noma ukuhlehlisa izinto kungagcina sekucindezelekile, imizwa yecala nobunzima, ukulahlekelwa okukhulu komkhiqizo womuntu siqu, kanye nokwenqatshwa kwezenhlalo nakwezamabhizinisi ngokungahambisani nezibopho noma ukuzibophezela. Le mizwa ingakhuphuka futhi idale ukuhlehlisa okuqhubekayo… ukuphinda ungene ekuhambeni okuphansi okuyingozi.
Kubantu abaningi, ukuba nalesi simo sengqondo ngempilo kudala ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka. Kungenzeka ukuthi abantu bazame ukuzithethelela ngokuqinisa kabi indlela efanayo yokuziphatha eyonakalisayo. Kujwayelekile ukuthi wonke umuntu ahlehlise isikhathi esithile, Kepha lapho kuba yisidingo, inkinga iqala empilweni yomuntu.
Kwesinye isikhathi ukuhlehlisa okungapheli kuyisibonakaliso sokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okucashile. Kodwa-ke, ukuhlehlisa kungabonakala futhi njengendlela ewusizo yokukhomba okubalulekile kithina uqobo, njenge kuyaqabukela ukubambezela lapho uwazisa ngempela umsebenzi owenzayo.
Kodwa-ke, ohlehlisa izinto kufanele afunde ukukhuphula inani lezinto eziseqhulwini, noma ngabe angakujabuleli ngempela ukuzenza, ukuze ahlale ekhiqiza kuzo zonke izici zempilo yakhe. Umbono womphakathi (abaphathi, abangane, umndeni, osebenza nabo ...) walabo abazindela ukwenza inkolelo yokuthi ukwenqaba imisebenzi kuhambisana nobuvila, amandla amancane, ukungazibophezeli kanye nesifiso esiphansi.
Izimbangela zokuhlehlisa izinto
Kungahle kube nokuxhuma ezindabeni zokukhathazeka, ukuzethemba okuphansi, kanye nomqondo wokuzihlula. Ukuhlehlisa izinto kuhlobene kakhulu nokungazethembi (isb. Ukungazenzi kahle noma ukungakwazi ukuzisiza) noma ukungawuthandi umsebenzi (isb. Isithukuthezi nokunganaki).
Uma kuhlehliswa kwenzeka ngoba kukhona ikhefu nokuzithiba kwabantu futhi banamawala kakhulu kunokuba kubonakala. Uyazi okufanele ukwenze kepha awukwazi ukukwenza ... Kuyigebe elikhulu phakathi kwenhloso nokwenza.
Unjani umgcinisihlalo wesivumelwano
Ohlehlisa izinto unezinga eliphakeme lokuziphatha ngaphandle kokuzithiba nokuziphatha. Bazibandakanya nohlobo oluthile lokulawula i-ego futhi baphike umthwalo, benza izizathu (izaba) zokubambezela lokho obekufanele ngabe bakwenzile.
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi lezi zizathu zifeza injongo ebaluleke kakhulu: vumela ukuthi baqhubeke nokuhlehlisa ngokunciphisa imiphumela ebonakalayo yezenzo futhi ubavumele ukuthi baqhubeke bezizwa kamnandi maqondana nokuthi singobani njengabantu. Bazama ukulawula izimpilo zabo nokuthi yini okufanele bayenze, noma ngabe lapho bengenzi okufanele bakwenze, kudala ukukhathazeka kanye nengcindezi. Kungumzamo omkhulu wokulawula izimpilo zabo, kepha kube nemiphumela emibi kulokho okukhona manje nekusasa labo.
Ukuzethemba kubalulekile ukuze ukwazi ukuphumelela empilweni futhi kulapho abahlehlisa izinto bathola ubunzima obukhulu kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukuthi abantu babone ukuthi kwenzekani kubo futhi bazi ukuthi ukwaneliseka ngokushesha kwesinye isikhathi akusona isixazululo esihle njalo.
Ukuzithokozisa ngokushesha
Esinye isiqalekiso somphakathi wanamuhla ukuzanelisa ngokushesha. Ukuguqula abantu babe yizilo ezivilaphayo. Kungani uzihlupha ngokubhala amakhasi ambalwa womsebenzi, lapho singazama lo mdlalo omusha opholile ku-Facebook? Ngokuzenzakalelayo sikhetha indlela elula, sizama ukuzwa isikhashana senjabulo, kunokuba ubhekane nengcindezi yomthwalo ongenakugwenywa.
Inkinga ukuthi asizuzi lutho ngokuchitha isikhathi kulezi zinjabulo ezilula. Ngemva kwesikhashana, Lapho sibona ukuthi cishe sesiphelelwe yisikhathi, siqala ukusebenza. Konke esikwazi ukusingatha umsebenzi ophuthumayo futhi wenziwe kahle nje, futhi asigculiseki ngemiphumela ...
Uhlulwa kabili, ngoba akunanzuzo ukuthi uchithe uhhafu wosuku emisebenzini engenamsebenzi, futhi alikho ithuba lokuthi umsebenzi owenziwe ngokushesha muhle. Ngakho-ke, intukuthelo iza nathi ngokwehluleka ukunqoba lesi sidingo sokuhlehlisa, futhi asigculisekile ngoba ekupheleni kosuku sisenomsebenzi wethu omningi okufanele siwuqede.
Ingabe ungumuntu ohlehlisa izinto noma okhetha ukufeza izinhloso kuqala bese uphumula kamuva? Ungadinga ukuthi ufunde ukuyeka ukuzindela.