Ngaphandle kokungabaza, umndeni uyinto ebalulekile empilweni yabo bonke abantu. Yize ikakhulukazi kokuncane kakhulu ngoba wonke amalungu alo, kuzobanika amanani wokuzibandakanya empilweni. Okuthile okuzuzisa isigaba ngasinye sempilo yakhe nentuthuko njengoba sizobona.
Indlela yokuthonya ukukhula kwezingane, ngoba zidinga ukuzungezwa isisekelo esizinzile sokuthuthuka kwemvelo. Kube nezifundo eziningi ezihlinzeka ngemininingwane emangazayo ngokubaluleka kwe- Izinhlobo zomndeni ezisizungezile nanamuhla, sizokutshela ngazo zonke.
Umndeni wenuzi
Lokhu kungokokuqala iqembu lomndeni ukuthi sonke siyazi. Iqembu lapho sihlangana khona nobaba, umama nezingane. Kungaba ingane eyodwa noma eziningana, kepha uma nje besebasha noma besakhula, bahlala nabazali babo.
Umndeni owandisiwe noma oyinkimbinkimbi
Leli gama le- umndeni owandisiwe kubizwa kuwo wonke amalungu anobudlelwano obusondelene begazi. Lokho wukuthi, kubo bobabili abazali nezingane, ngaphandle kokukhohlwa izingane zakini noma ogogo nomkhulu. Kuzongena nabafowabo bokutholwa nogogo nomkhulu. Olunye uhlobo lomndeni lapho ubudlelwano begazi buqhubeka nokuba yibo obudonsa kakhulu kunakuqala. Kulokhu, ngokunengqondo, akudingeki ukuthi bonke babe ngaphakathi kweqembu lasekhaya. Ngamunye ekhaya kodwa noma kunjalo, bahlala bengumgogodla womndeni ofanayo. Ngakho-ke igama lakhe lidluliselwa emndenini.
Umndeni wabazali abangabodwa
Kulokhu, omunye wabazali nguyena onakekela konke. Lokho wukuthi, unomsebenzi wokunakekela nokufundisa izingane zakho. Kungaba bobabili umama nobaba owenza lo msebenzi. Babizwa nangobaba ongayedwa noma umama ongayedwa. I- ukwakheka kwalolu hlobo lwemindeni kungenxa yokungashadi uqobo noma ukwahlukanisa noma ukuba ngumfelokazi, phakathi kwabanye. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi kukhethwa ngokuzithandela, kepha kokunye okuningi kunikezwa yizimo. Kungabizwa nangokuthi i-nucleus yomndeni ongayedwa. Njengoba iyodwa, ingakha umndeni ofanele. Yize njengoba sibona, kungahlala kunokuhlukahluka. Isibonelo, ubaba ongenaye umlingani futhi onezingane ezimbili angahlala nabazali bakhe futhi angabizwa ngokuthi 'yingxenye yomzali oyedwa emndenini owandisiwe', ngoba zombili lezi zinketho zihlangene.
Umndeni ohlanganisiwe noma owakhiwe kabusha
Ngaphakathi kwakhe hlangana nemibhangqwana emisha ehlukanisile kanye nabafelwa abafelokazi noma omama abangabodwa noma obaba. Eminyakeni eminingi edlule, ngemuva kweMpi Yesibili Yomhlaba, lezi zinhlobo zemindeni zazakhiwa abafelwa yimpi. Yize namuhla okuvame kakhulu ukuthi bangabantu abahlukanisile abanezingane abathola umlingani futhi futhi baqale umndeni onamalungu amaningi kuwo. Luhlobo lomndeni lokho imvamisa izalwa ngenhlekelele noma ngokulahlekelwa. Ngalesi sizathu, kuhlale kukhona bobabili ubaba noma umama kwimemori futhi kufanele uphile nayo. Vele, kwesinye isikhathi lokho okumele uhlale nakho kungumlingani wakudala, ongeyona ingxenye yophiko kepha ojwayele ukuxoxisana naye futhi nixoxe ngezinkinga ezikhona. Okuthile kwesinye isikhathi nakho okudala izinkinga ezinkulu.
Umndeni wabazali
Enye yezinhlobo noma izinhlobo zemindeni itholakala emndenini obizwa nge-homoparental family. Njengokwazi kwakho, Ngumbhangqwana wesilisa noma wesifazane onabantwana. Bangaba omama noma obaba ngezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zezindlela ezinjengokutholwa, ukwelashwa kokufakelwa kokufakelwa, in-vitro noma ukuzalwa ngokwesivumelwano. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi labo asebavele banengane ebudlelwaneni obudlule babizwa nangokuthi abazali abathandana nabobaba.
Umndeni wabazali abahlukene
Njengoba igama liphakamisa, imayelana umbhangqwana ohlukanise ngezizathu ezahlukene. Banezingane abazinakekelayo futhi ngokungafani nezinye zangaphambili, babelana ngemisebenzi. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi abahlali ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa kodwa bazohlangana ukuze bafundise izingane zabo ngokulinganayo, yingakho kuphinde kubhekwe njengolunye uhlobo lomndeni.
Umndeni ongenazo izingane
Njengoba kushiwo ezikhathini zakamuva, olunye uhlobo lomndeni yilolu. Kungani umbhangqwana onquma ukungabi nabantwana futhi ngumndeni onazo zonke izinhlamvu. Kwesinye isikhathi isinqumo esabo futhi kwabanye, sithathwa ngenxa yamathuba amancane okuba nezingane.
Umndeni wokutholwa
Bekuhlale kushiwo njalo abazali yilabo abafundisayo nabanakekelayo, kwesinye isikhathi hhayi labo abafaka isandla. Ngakho-ke, umndeni wokutholwa yiwo onothando oluningi lokunikeza nokwamukela ingane eyodwa noma ngaphezulu. Kwesinye isikhathi ngoba abashadikazi abakwazi ukuba nezingane futhi kwesinye isikhathi ngoba sebenazo kodwa bafuna ukukhulisa umndeni ngokunikeza ithuba umntwana omusha.
Umndeni obungayo
Ihluke ngandlela thile edlule. Ngoba kuleli cala, ingane eyodwa noma ngaphezulu yamukelwa kepha kuze kube u-a ikhaya elichazayo. Ngakho-ke kuyinto yesikhashana, yize noma kunjalo futhi inqobo nje uma ukuhlala ndawonye kusasho, kuphakathi kwezinhlobo zomndeni.