Akuthandabuzeki usapho yinto ebalulekileyo ebomini yabo bonke abantu. Nangona ikakhulu kweyona incinci kuba onke amalungu ayo, iya kubanika amaxabiso athile ukuze bawadibanise ebomini. Into exhasa onke amabakala obomi kunye nokukhula kwakhe njengoko siza kubona.
Indlela yokuchaphazela ukukhula kwabantwana, kuba bafuna ukungqongwa sisiseko esizinzileyo sophuhliso lwendalo. Zininzi izifundo ezibonelela ngedatha emangazayo ngokubaluleka kwe- Iindidi zosapho ezisingqongileyo kwaye namhlanje, siza kuzixoxa zonke.
Usapho lwenyukliya
Le yeyokuqala iqela losapho ukuba sonke siyazi. Iqela apho sidibana notata, umama nabantwana. Inokuba ngumntwana omnye okanye abaliqela, kodwa okoko besebancinci okanye bekwishumi elivisayo, bahlala nabazali babo.
Usapho olwandisiweyo okanye oluntsonkothileyo
Eli gama usapho olongezelelwe Ibizwa kuwo onke amalungu anobudlelwane obusondeleyo egazini. Oko kukuthi, kubo bobabini abazali nabantwana, ngaphandle kokulibala abantakwabo okanye ootatomkhulu noomakhulu. Oomama noomakhulu notatomkhulu nabo baya kungena. Enye yeentlobo zosapho apho ubudlelwane begazi buqhubeka ukuba bobo betsala ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Kule meko, ngokusengqiqweni, ayifanelanga ukuba ibekho kwiqela lasekhaya. Elowo ekhaya kodwa okwangoku, bahlala bengumxholo omnye wosapho. Yiyo loo nto igama lakhe lingusapho.
Intsapho enomzali omnye
Kule meko, omnye wabazali nguye ogcina yonke into. Oko kukuthi, unomsebenzi wokukhathalela kunye nokufundisa abantwana bakho. Bobabini umama notata bangawenza lo msebenzi. Bakwabizwa ngokuba ngoyise ongatshatanga okanye umama ongatshatanga. Inkqubo ye- ukuyilwa kolu hlobo lweentsapho kungenxa yokungatshati uqobo okanye uqhawulo-mtshato okanye ubuhlolokazi, phakathi kwabanye. Oku kuthetha ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kukhethwa ngokuzithandela, kodwa kwezinye ezininzi kunikwa ziimeko. Inokubizwa ngokuba ngumzi wosapho ongumzali omnye. Kuba iyodwa, inokwenza ngokugqibeleleyo usapho olufanelekileyo. Nangona sibona, kunokuhlala kukho ukwahluka. Umzekelo, utata ongenalo iqabane kunye nabantwana ababini unokuhlala nabazali bakhe kwaye angabizwa ngokuba 'ngumzali ongatshatanga kusapho olubanzi', kuba zombini ezi ndlela ziyahlangana.
Intlanganiso ehlanganisiweyo okanye eyakhiwe ngokutsha
Ngaphakathi kuye dibana nezi zibini zitshatileyo Njengabahlolo okanye abahlolo kunye noomama abangabodwa okanye ootata. Kwiminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo, emva kweMfazwe yesibini (II) yeHlabathi, ezi ntlobo zeentsapho zazenziwe ngabahlolokazi. Nangona namhlanje eyona nto ixhaphakileyo kukuba bengabantu abaqhawule umtshato abanabantwana abafumana iqabane kwakhona kwaye baqale usapho olunamalungu amaninzi kulo. Luhlobo losapho olo uhlala ezelwe yintlekele okanye ilahleko. Ngesi sizathu, kuhlala kukho bobabini utata okanye umama kwimemori kwaye kuya kufuneka uphile nayo. Ewe kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha into ekufuneka uhlale nayo liqabane langaphambili, elingeyonxalenye yeyunithi kodwa ohlala uxoxisana naye kwaye uxoxe ngeengxaki esele zikhona. Into ethi ngamanye amaxesha ivelise iingxaki ezinzulu.
Usapho oluhlala ekhaya
Enye yeemodeli okanye iintlobo zeentsapho zifunyanwa kusapho olubizwa ngokuba lusapho lwabazali. Njengokuba usazi, Sisibini samadoda okanye abafazi abanabantwana. Banokuba ngoomama okanye ootata ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ezifana nokwamkelwa, unyango lokufaka amadlozi okungekho mthethweni, in-vitro okanye ukumitha. Kuyinyani ukuba abo sele benomntwana kubudlelwane obudlulileyo babizwa ngokuba ngabazali.
Usapho lwabazali abahlukene
Njengoko igama libonisa, imalunga isibini esahlukane ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Banabantwana ababakhathalelayo kwaye ngokungafaniyo nabanye bangaphambili, babelana ngemisebenzi. Liyinene elithi abahlali phantsi kophahla olunye kodwa baya kuhlangana ukuze bafundise abantwana ngokulinganayo, kungoko kukwajongwa njengolunye uhlobo losapho ekufuneka luthathelwe ingqalelo.
Usapho ngaphandle kwabantwana
Njengoko sele kutshiwo kumaxesha akutshanje, olunye uhlobo losapho yile. Ngoba isibini esigqiba ekubeni singabi nabantwana Ikwayintsapho enazo zonke iileta. Ngamanye amaxesha isigqibo sesabo kwaye nakwabanye, senziwa ngenxa yamandla asezantsi okufumana abantwana.
Usapho lokwamkela
Bekusoloko kuthethwa njalo Abazali ngabo bafundisayo kwaye babakhathalele, ngamanye amaxesha hayi abo babangela. Ke ngoko, usapho olwamkelayo lolona lunothando oluninzi lokunika nokwamkela umntwana omnye okanye nangaphezulu. Ngamanye amaxesha kuba esi sibini asinakuba nabantwana ngamanye amaxesha, kuba sele benaye kodwa bafuna ukwandisa usapho ngokunika umntwana omtsha ithuba.
Yamkela usapho
Yahluke mpela kweyangaphambili. Kungenxa yokuba kule meko, kuphela umntwana omnye okanye nangaphezulu bamkelwe kodwa bade bafunyanwe ikhaya elichazayo. Ke iyinto yethutyana, nangona kunjalo kwaye ngelixa ukuhlala kunye kuhlala kunjalo, ikwindidi zosapho.