Mitundu ya mabanja

Mosakayikira, banja ndichinthu chofunikira pamoyo la anthu onse. Ngakhale makamaka mwa ana ang'onoang'ono chifukwa mamembala onse a iwo, adzawapatsa malingaliro kuti aphatikize m'moyo. China chake chomwe chimapindulitsa gawo lililonse la moyo wake ndi chitukuko monga momwe tionere.

Njira yosinthira kukula kwa ana, chifukwa amafunika kuzunguliridwa ndi maziko okhazikika achilengedwe. Pakhala pali maphunziro ambiri omwe amapereka chidziwitso chodabwitsa pakufunika kwa Mitundu ya mabanja zomwe zatizungulira ndipo lero, tikambirana zonsezi.

Banja la nyukiliya

Ichi ndiye choyamba banja kuti ife tonse tikudziwa. Gulu lomwe timakumana ndi bambo, mayi ndi ana. Atha kukhala mwana m'modzi kapena angapo, koma bola akadali achichepere kapena achinyamata, amakhala ndi makolo awo.

Banja lowonjezera kapena lovuta

Dzina ili la banja ndi achibale Amayitanidwa kwa mamembala onse omwe ali ndi ubale wapamtima. Ndiye kuti, kwa makolo ndi ana, osayiwala abale kapena agogo. Achimwene awo ndi agogo awo nawonso adzalowa. Ndi mtundu wina wamabanja pomwe ubale wamagazi umapitilizabe kukhala womwe umakoka koposa kale. Poterepa, ndizomveka, sikuti onse ayenera kukhala pagulu. Aliyense kunyumba komabe, amakhalabe chimodzimodzi pabanja. Chifukwa chake dzina lake ndi banja.

Banja la kholo limodzi

Zikatere, m'modzi mwa makolowo ndi amene amasamalira chilichonse. Ndiye kuti, muli ndi ntchito yosamalira ndi kuphunzitsa ana anu. Amayi ndi abambo onse akhoza kuchita ntchitoyi. Amatchedwanso bambo yekha kapena mayi wosakwatira. Pulogalamu ya mapangidwe amtundu uwu wamabanja ndichifukwa chokhala wosakwatiwa kapena kusudzulana kapena umasiye, pakati pa ena. Mwanjira ina, nthawi zina amasankhidwa mwaufulu, koma mwa ena ambiri amaperekedwa ndi momwe zinthu zilili. Itha kutchedwanso kuti banja la kholo limodzi. Popeza palokha, itha kupanga banja loyenera. Ngakhale monga tawonera, nthawi zonse pamakhala mitundu. Mwachitsanzo, bambo yemwe alibe mnzake komanso ali ndi ana awiri atha kukhala ndi makolo ake ndipo angatchulidwe kuti 'kholo la kholo limodzi m'banja lalikulu', popeza njira zonsezi ndizogwirizana.

Anasonkhanitsa kapena kukhazikitsanso banja

Mkati mwa iye kukumana ndi mabanja omwe asudzulana kumene komanso amuna kapena akazi amasiye ndi amayi kapena abambo osakwatira. Zaka zambiri zapitazo, pambuyo pa nkhondo yachiwiri yapadziko lonse, mabanja amtunduwu anali amasiye. Ngakhale masiku ano chodziwika kwambiri ndikuti ndi anthu osudzulana omwe ali ndi ana omwe amapezanso bwenzi ndikukhalanso ndi banja lokhala ndi mamembala ambiri. Ndi mtundu wa banja womwe nthawi zambiri amabadwa chifukwa cha tsoka kapena kutayika. Pachifukwa ichi, nthawi zonse pamakhala abambo kapena amayi omwe amakumbukira ndipo muyenera kukhala nawo. Zachidziwikire, nthawi zina zomwe muyenera kukhala ndi mnzanu wakale, yemwe siali mgulu la omwe mumakambirana naye ndikukambirana mavuto omwe alipo kale. China chake chomwe nthawi zina chimayambitsanso mavuto akulu.

Banja lokhala ndi banja limodzi

Mtundu wina wamitundu kapena mitundu yamabanja umapezeka m'banja lomwe limatchedwa kuti banja lokha amuna okhaokha. Monga mukudziwa, ndi okwatirana amuna kapena akazi omwe ali ndi ana. Amatha kukhala amayi kapena abambo kudzera munjira zosiyanasiyana monga kukhazikitsidwa, njira zokomera ana, in vitro kapena surrogacy. Ndizowona kuti iwo omwe ali kale ndi mwana kuchokera pachibwenzi cham'mbuyomu amatchedwanso homoparental.

Banja la makolo olekanitsidwa

Monga momwe dzinalo likusonyezera, ili pafupi banja lomwe pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana apatukana. Ali ndi ana odalira ndipo mosiyana ndi zomwe zili pamwambapa, amagawana nawo ntchitoyi. Zowona kuti samakhala pansi padenga limodzi koma adzakumana kuti aphunzitse ana awo mofananamo, chifukwa chake amawonedwanso ngati ena Mitundu ya mabanja Kukumbukira.

Banja lopanda ana

Zomwe zanenedwa posachedwa, banja lina ndi ili. Chifukwa? okwatirana omwe asankha kusakhala ndi ana ndi banja lomwe lili ndi zilembo zonse. Nthawi zina chisankho chimakhala chawo ndipo mwa ena, chimaperekedwa chifukwa chakuchepa kokhala ndi ana.

Kutengera banja

Zakhala zikunenedwa kuti makolo ndi omwe amaphunzitsa ndi kusamalira, nthawi zina osati omwe amayambitsa. Chifukwa chake, banja lolera ndilomwe limakonda kwambiri kupatsa ndikulera mwana m'modzi kapena angapo. Nthawi zina chifukwa choti awiriwo sangakhale ndi ana ndipo nthawi zina chifukwa ali nawo kale koma akufuna kukulitsa banja popereka mwayi kwa mwana watsopano.

Banja losunga alendo

Ndizosiyana pang'ono ndi m'mbuyomu. Chifukwa pankhaniyi, mwana m'modzi yekha kapena angapo amalandilidwa koma mpaka a nyumba yotsimikizika. Chifukwa chake ndichinthu chosakhalitsa, ngakhale zili choncho komanso bola kukhalapo kwa nthawi yayitali, kulinso m'mitundu yamabanja.